Let us pretend that there are a separate “Kjell Gustafsson” and give the idea of a “Kjell” with a separate and very special story. A story to relate to. What would it give us? Would we come closer? What does our stories about others do with the story we have about our selves?
There will probably be some pointing towards what you are in your encounter with “him”. His aim is to get you enlightened or at least help you to experience yourself beyond your personality.