Rupert James Alison

Playing with Consent

Rupert has been space-holding for groups since 1992, and has trained in depth with many internationally renowned teachers of intimacy, relationships and consent. Informed choice and an inclusive approach are central to all his work. He is committed to improving consent awareness and education, both as a personal practice, and also as a collective endeavour – recognising that our ability to achieve consent is influenced by many cultural and social dynamics, as well as our trauma histories.

Rupert is a kinky explorer, queerlesque performer, writer, uncle, part-time scientist and nature lover. He is based in Oxford, UK, and is an accredited facilitator of Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent. Rupert’s pronouns are he/him.

"Let the soft animal of your body love what it loves"

- Mary Oliver